Do The Best

No Choice? No Problem! A Guide to Thriving When Life Throws Lemons

 

Ever been stuck between a rock and a hard place?

Well, I've been there, done that, and got the T-shirt (and it was not even my size!).

Here’s a little gem for you: "If you have a choice, then choose the best; if you have no choice, then do the best."

Let me tell you, this mantra got me through some wild times.

Grab a snack, and let me share how this played out in my life’s crazy rollercoaster ride.

 

That Time I Had Choices

Let's rewind to when I had choices.

I was like a kid in a candy store but with adult-sized decisions. Career paths, relationships, where to live - you name it.

Choosing the best?

It was like trying to pick the most binge-worthy Netflix show on a Saturday night. Overwhelming, but hey, options!

 

When Choices Left the Building

Then came the curveball. Life decided it was time for a plot twist.

Suddenly, choices were as scarce as a calm day in my toddler's life. I faced a huge trial – think 'Lost' but in real life, and sadly, no island.

I had to navigate a tough situation with practically zero options.

 

Doing the Best with the Worst

So, what’s a person to do when life hands you lemons, but you wanted oranges?

You make the best darn lemonade you can.

I tackled the challenge head-on, with a spoonful of humor and a dash of determination. I learned to improvise, adapt, and, surprisingly, to laugh during the storm.

 

Life Lessons from the School of Hard Knocks

Here are a few nuggets of wisdom I picked up:

 

1. Embrace the Improv: Life’s not scripted (unless you’re a reality TV star, maybe?). When you have no choice, improvise. Think MacGyver, but with everyday life.

 

2. Find Humor in the Absurd: When life gets ridiculous, join the party. Laugh at the absurdity. It’s like a mental reset button.

 

3. ‘Do the Best’ is Actually Fun: There’s a strange kind of fun in doing your best in the worst situations. It’s like playing life on hard mode – bragging rights are all yours.

 

So, there you have it.

When you've got choices, aim high. When you don't, shine bright.

And remember, even if the T-shirt life gives you is a few sizes too big, wear it with style (and maybe a funky belt). Keep rolling with the punches, and who knows?

You might just enjoy the ride.